Love

It’s Not Natural

In a long-overdue relaxing dinner with a good friend, the topic came up – as often happens with liberal cis white males – of the various versions of sexual assault and bad sex and inappropriate behavior that have filled the news of late. In talking about one particular article, about the gauche and clumsy actions …

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Love

Never Lie About Love (sticky version)

It’s far too late now, because they’re grown adults, but if there was one piece of advice I would give my daughters about love, it’s those four words: Never lie about love. All love, actually, but in this kind I’m talking about the sticky kind of love: sex. There’s actually a pretty simple reason for …

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