Life

Making the Present the Past You Want to Remember

We didn’t want to make it the way it was. We wanted to make it the way we remembered it. – creators of the Netflix series “Voltron” That quote has stuck with me ever since one of my best friends (and far superior a geek than I will ever be) related it to me. It …

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Life

It’s Not a Second Life

“I like him,” my friend said as we sat in the airport. “When I visited him, we ate lunch, walked around the farm. He told me I was welcome to stay with him any time I was in town.” He paused, frowning. “But online…man, he is a totally different person. I can’t stand him.” In …

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Love

The Hardest Person to Trust

In case you’re wondering – and I’m certain anyone who knows me personally isn’t – being a personal development blogger does not give you any advantages in the human experience. I still lose my temper, I still binge-watch TV, I still misplace my phone and still lust after the new iPad even though I really don’t need …

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Practice

What if you did it right, but actually planned it wrong?

“No kidding, there I was…” I was lucky enough to spend the weekend at a retreat in Indeana with a few other performance art enthusiasts, including a very dear friend of mine from New York. He was talking about a recent show he did: I really thought that was it – the best show I’d …

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