Life

Sometimes You’re the Bad Guy

Interesting thing happened to me on twitter. There was a discussion going on about the “Big Three” in science fiction. At first it was generally acknowledged that those were Isaac Asimov, Robert Heinlein, and Ray Bradbury, and then people would go on to talk about more diverse authors from the same time period (Ursula LeGuin, …

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Love

Apologizing to the Ones You Love

In my last post I talked about how I was surprised that my friend had apologized to me. It's possible you might get the impression that I follow that silly idea that "love means never having to say you're sorry. Far from it. Love means that you absolutely say you're sorry – but you have …

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Love

how to apologize well

The Art of Sucking It Up “Love means never having to say you’re sorry.” – The most fallacious movie line in history. My parents worked really hard to create a happy home for us kids. Part of that was that I can’t remember any times that I ever saw them get into fights. A few …

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